AIR FORCE AMY CERTIFIED LOVE COACH & LOVEOLOGIST
AIR FORCE AMY CERTIFIED LOVE COACH & LOVEOLOGIST
WHILE STUDYING & TESTING FOR MY CERTIFICATION TO BE A “CERTIFIED LOVE COACH” AND “LOVEOLOGIST”….
Are you in a sexless marriage? There is hope. I can help!
Generally, psychologists and physicians describe a “sexless marriage” as having 10 or fewer instances of sex per year. Therefore, many relationships are not sexless by that definition, but are still “dead” in terms of one partner persistently withdrawing from sexual intimacy beyond acceptable limits for their spouse.
You are not alone. I offer a safe, legal, discreet manner in which to alleviate your frustrations. Bring your partner or meet me individually to discuss your options!
National Bubble Bath Day with AFA January 8th!
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Air Force Amy on Judge Pirro- A Legendary Fum Memory!
My Christmas Eve Free Gift To You. The fond memories of you and I make me smile all the time.
Here is one of my funniest legendary memories of all time: My Day in Court with Judge Jeanine Pirro.
This is an oldie but goodie…and still brings a smile to my face every time I watch it!
In this episode I sued my friend and co-worker Bunny Love on Judge Jeanine Pirro’s courtroom show back in 2010.
My favorite part was when Judge Jeanine asked how I got from the Air Force to the Bunny Ranch.
She and audience broke up over my answer!
And don’t worry. Bunny Love and I were, are and will forever be BFF’s.
If you’ve never seen the episode, here it is. Hope you enjoy it.
And Happy New Year!
More Than Half Of Men In Relationships Hire Sex Workers
Home Lifestyle More Than Half Of Men In Relationships Hire Sex Workers
More Than Half Of Men In Relationships Hire Sex Workers
Nov 14, 2016 By Christine Rivas
When you think of a man hiring a hooker, you might find yourself thinking that they’re being perverts or misogynists, especially if you find out that they’re family men. You might even find yourself judging them when you find out that about half of the men who hire sex workers are men who are in relationships. However, studies have shown that that’s very far from the truth: the men who hire sex workers while in relationships are men that are craving an emotional bond beyond what their relationships are currently giving them. No matter what you think of this morally, the fact remains that this is happening, and there are a lot of reasons why. Here are just a few reasons why men hire sex workers while in relationships.
I am Your Millionaire Match You Don’t Have To Marry!
I am Your Millionaire Match You Don’t Have To Marry!
I am your # 1 Choice For A No Strings Romantic Partner
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I offer experiences catered to the man that has everything and has arrived in life. I have arrived in life. I am super successful and I have the most experience, the most titles, the most satisfied clients. I am the #1 choice of the affluent and the super affluent. You are looking for that extraordinary experience of a life-time and that it what I consistently deliver.
A cut above the rest. I am the reason to pull the trigger and contact me. I am award winning, beautiful, smart, funny, nice, honest and a very hard worker. I am a world traveler, a jet setter and super affluent myself.
I work by appointment only and I base my schedule around the dates you want to see me. Choose a date/s and email me to get started. I like to plan extensively for your arrival and your romantic getaway with me. I care, I know what you want and I have the experience and drive to deliver.
I cater to the affluent and the super affluent. I have the most experience, period. I am the best sex that you will ever have, period. And no one finds argue with that or even dares to claim it. I claim it. I own it. I deliver. I love that I can add my sexual talents to everything else that I have to offer.
Experience is my hook. I offer an unequaled experience. I create and deliver the best experiences because I have the experience to do so. I have the most experience of anyone in my industry. I am always cultivating new and better experiences. My experience allows me to pay attention to and craft everything for you down to the smallest of details.
I embody the romantic getaway. You want to relax, escape your everyday life, feel like you are still in the game – or just get in the game – with a woman whose only agenda is to make you happy. That is a short list of what I provide. I pay attention to you. I care about you. I am extremely grateful for your time, your attention and the monies you spend and the effort you make to see me. I appreciate all the things you do and I repay you 1000 fold with everything I have to offer. I have delivered the most five, six and seven digit experiences than anyone else in my field.
My proven track record and longevity way past what is normal is testament to my award winning customer service, quality and care given everyone I meet.
I like fine dining, festivals, local annual events, people watching, conversation, diet & exercise, healthy habits, sight seeing, health spas, long walks, coffee houses, quaint down towns, history, cars, driving fast, multi tasking, resting and relaxation, the beach, the slopes, the green, dancing and gambling.
You do want the most experienced, the most beautiful, the most charming and most down to earth woman in Nevada to be the most enjoyable company you will ever experience, and I am the experience for you.
Please email me to begin your journey to the experience of a lifetime.
Basic Packages – Easily Combined
What could it be like to be in the company of Air Force Amy, The World’s Most Celebrated Courtesan of Modern Times, an actual Living Legend in the World of Adult Pleasures?
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Sounds pretty intimidating, I get it. But seriously, I am the most humble, silly, fun, down to earth, genuine people person you will ever meet. What all my experience means is that I am adept and flexible in all situations. I do not judge, I empathize and relate and comfort and encourage and I myself, am super easy peezy to please. I am going to softly guide you in the ways that really turn me on and watch me in my complete and utter delight, see what you can do to me, oh my! And then feel what I can do for you, oh double, triple my!
So what happens is I am personally going to connect with you. No assistant, no hires, no one else but me is corresponding with you. Period.
I am going to reply as quickly as I can and answer all your questions and ask you some questions too. I want us to make a connection and get excited about seeing each other and get you the experience you are hoping for and looking for. If you don’t hear from me in 48 hrs (I might be on an outdate) please check your spam folder.
We are going to feel all the new thrills and excitement of a fun and new connection except without all the drama, hassles, dangers or other nefarious concerns.
Simply put, I love what I do and it shows and you reap the benefits of that! I could have retired many, many times over but this is what I truly, truly love. I love people, I love intimacy, I love the human touch, the human psyche and the divine interactions I am blessed with day in and day out, year in and year out.
I know this whole process may seem intimidating so please no worries, I am the best at making people feel very comfortable with me. How? I find something in common between us, something we have both experienced or liked, disliked, wanted or ever felt; so that is pretty easy, and then plus I am really funny. I have a great sense of humor and I love to laugh and keep things light. And I also focus on the things about you that I love and you will feel that authentic adoration and affection from me too.
I help make your serious and daunting things seem easy and effortless and fun. I dispel your fears, and most of all I help you get or regain your confidence that you so justly deserve. And I just know to have fun and I just love to have fun!
Family, society, social standards, partners, peer pressure, the opposite sex, religeon, social media, media, Hollywood, advertisers – you name it – it doesn’t take much to get the wrong ideas, unhealthy self talk, poor self image and other thoughts of inadequacy or inabilities. I’m here to show you how truly super fantastic and incredible and worthy that you really are.
We are going to explore and experience and learn and experiment and practice and laugh and have fun and maybe even dance and sing to our favorite songs and do all the things you’ve ever dreamed of doing on a date, in a relationship, between the sheets, out on the town, behind closed doors and even ever in your wildest dreams.
Just email me and I’ll help you start this very simple process that makes everything as real and genuine and comfortable as possible and way easier than what you might think.
Ask yourself which of the following most closely describes where you are coming from, what your current situation is and what you are in search of here and with me?
Newbies
If you’ve never been to a brothel before, I would love to be your willing escort. This could be the most erotic, exciting and passionate experience that you’ve ever had—that is, if you have the right guide. I can be soft and slow when you need, or that wild and exotic beauty that transports you to the brink of the most thrilling sexual moment you’ve ever had.
And we don’t have to dive right in. We can spend some time talking, laughing, cuddling, massaging, let the experience linger. The best part about a legal brothel is that there is no tenseness, no hesitation. I am there for you, ready to accommodate your passions and desires. We can have fun and enjoy every single moment of it together. I love to spoil and pamper—it’s what I’m best at. Especially with first-timers, getting to introduce them to a once-in-a-lifetime erotic experience, well that’s just the cherry on top.
Back in the Saddle
Maybe it’s been awhile…We’ve all gone through some experience or life moment that interferes with our sex life. Whether divorced, widowed, or just a little rusty, you can depend on me to tempt you, flirt with you, seduce you, and find that sexual lothario buried within. I will make you feel as sensually explosive as you ever were.
For me, sex is intimately linked with passion. If passion still throbs within your veins and the thought of a soft silky touch makes your body tingle—then you’ve haven’t lost a thing. The erotic part of you is still there dying to get out. Who better to unleash all of that pent up sexual energy on, than an experienced and generous teacher, one with delectable curves and legs that go on for miles. I bet you can feel those legs wrapped around you already.
If you maybe you need a little more time to shake the rust off, then simply lay back and let me do all of the work. Pleasuring is what I’m best at after all. Or, if you want to take the lead, experiment, do those wild and naughty things that perhaps you never had the chance to do before—here I am! Don’t be afraid to climb back in that saddle—I promise I’ll be gentle, unless you don’t want me to.
Couples
Couples and especially women feel the most comfortable with me. I am mature and experienced and thoughtful and patient and intuitive. We can plan and make your experience exactly what you imagine and more. Whether you need more time, more romance, more rules, more ideas, I am your gal. I never judge, I always ask, I make our experience fun and sexy and will be so happy you made the choice to add me as i will be super honored go be part of your sensual journey.
Overnight
The sensual and passionate adventure does not have to stop after only an hour or two. As you may have heard, I can most definitely make it last all night long. Want longer? Then stay for two or three nights. The pleasure and the experience only grow more and more intense.
We can get comfortable with one another really quickly and then from there it’s simply a matter of going where our minds and bodies take us. You may have a middle of the night urge, I want to be there to satisfy it. You may want a weekend escape that is filled with nothing but my body doing things to you in ways you’ve only dreamed about.
I can be the soft, sweet and demure little hostess granting every wish you have, or I can take the lead and give you hours upon hours of the kind of sex therapy that only I know how to perform. Overnights are my favorite because I get to wake up next to you an do it all over again.
GFE
An exciting new level of elite companionship, the Girlfriend Experience allows us to enact a real relationship for the duration of our time together. So many men come to me with situations they are trying to escape from or forget for just a little while. They want someone by their side who listens, pays attention to all of their needs and is a soft place to land for the evening.
Emotionally and physically we can indulge one another, get lost in each other’s company and experience a provocative and sensual connection that maybe you have never had before. Don’t worry, there are no strings and no commitment…just an unforgettable fantasy.
I am that centerfold worthy girlfriend poised only to pamper and spoil, fondle and caress and provide the kind of connection that you may be missing in your life.
Pamper Party
For some, one luscious partner experienced in the most seductive techniques imaginable just isn’t enough. You’re coming to the ranch for an all out, no holds barred, indulge in every fantasy you’ve ever had vacation. And this is exactly how my pamper parties are designed to treat you…
Your erotic fantasies gone wild—that’s the only way I can begin to describe this particular experience. Champagne, massages, oils, whatever you desire. Maybe we take a bubble bath together, and while soaking in hot steamy water, do whatever comes natural. Maybe you want me to cook for you, wait on you and serve you to the best of my abilities. That, I can certainly do.
If pampering means becoming the sole object of sexual desire in a room of two maybe even three women, you will be extremely pleased by what we can offer. This is the epitome of pampering, and this is where fantasy truly does become reality
Virgins
Being a virgin is not a bad thing. Some associate a stigma with virginity, especially if you are above a certain age; that’s not the case at all…In fact, this makes it that much more enjoyable for me. When your first time is with an experienced teacher, prepared to guide you into the world of intimacy, passion, and the best sex you will ever have, well, let’s just say that is definitely one to write home about.
We can take our time and go as fast or slow as you want. Your level of experience doesn’t matter—your willingness does. Let me show you the wonders of sensuality. Let me take you on an erotic journey that will truly blow your mind. I’m certain you’ve thought about that first sexual encounter…a lot, but I guarantee you never thought about it like this.
Sex is a natural part of life—and one of the most delicious parts. With me, it will be an immersive, drive-you-wild, never forgotten experience that allows you to feel things and do things that will surely change your life. Don’t be shy—especially if you’re a virgin. These are the kinds of one-on-one, flesh-to-to-flesh moments I savor the most. The things I will do, the positions we can explore together…you’ll be glad you waited.
Experimentation
I am all for kinky, I am definitely in for wild, and the moves I have, the secrets I can divulge…let’s just say, you haven’t really experienced sex yet. The thing about fantasies is that there’s no telling what they might involve. From role playing, to a little bondage, to well, anything your unleashed mind can think up, I am here to play.
This is about you and me stripping it down and getting real—oh so real! Maybe you have a wife or partner, and maybe you’re a little shy when it comes to explaining what you want, telling them about all of the things you would do if only they’d let you. Practice on me. This is what I am here for after all.
Perhaps you want me to do certain things to you—I will most definitely accommodate. You have no idea how accommodating I can be, especially when it comes to experimenting sexually. Just imagine how satisfied, how completely fulfilled you’ll feel afterward. Let me be your host at this erotic and sensual playground.
Fetish
I never judge—in fact, the wilder you are, the more fetishes you have, that can sometimes make things very interesting, not to mention extremely hot. Some people that come to me are intoxicated by certain parts of my body—can you blame them? We go from there and all I can say it is always a passionate, wild ride, one that no one wants to get off of.
Kinkiness and fetishes only enhance the sexual experience. Being with me in this place is about indulging in those fantasies that otherwise have remained locked away within your mind. It’s time to give me the key—let’s open that vault together. Let’s see just how wild and steamy we can make it. The pleasure truly is never-ending as long as you trust me on this journey of touching, feeling, embracing, kissing, really whatever you like.
Erectile Dysfunction
I can tell you one thing, this is your safe place. You come to me and your experience will be gentle, therapeutic and passionate as hell. So maybe you have a problem in that department, I’ve never met a man who doesn’t still love to be tantalized and perhaps even teased a bit regardless of his current capabilities. Trust me, we’ll find ways to make that passion erupt.
There’s a lot to be said for touching and holding, for feeling our way around one another’s bodies. And my massages, well let’s just say you won’t find this kind of massage in a spa. Even if you are having some performance issues, that shouldn’t stop you from experiencing the most pleasurable thing in life: Sex. I can help you to embrace passion and intimacy again. If you’re nervous and simply want to watch or your wish is to pleasure me, by all means, my body is yours for the asking.
With a certification in sex therapy, I am the perfect go-to girl to cure what ails you. I am the fantasy brought to life; come to me and I will search the depths of your sensual side every way I know how to try and make the magic happen again.
Sexuality Assessment & Restructuring
Sexuality education specializing in , mature virgins, singles, couples & groups. Sexual attitude restructuring; individual & group. Aspergers Syndrome sexuality issues; sexual and cultural diversity issues. Sexual surrogate and licensed sex worker with decades of experience. Hands on therapy available for all comfort levels in a unique, legal and safe manner exclusively via a reputable licensed legal brothel in Nevada that maintains my own license to practice at same. Add my certifications in sex education, clinical sexology; certified sexologist and loveologist along with my continuing studies towards my Doctorate In Human Sexuality and I am very perfectly capable and genuinely suited in addressing a plethora of sexual and interpersonal concerns and interests.
I offer a unique approach to Life Coaching with an emphasis on Sexuality. It is a Multi-dimensional, goal-oriented approach to finding practical solutions to current or long-standing sexuality and intimacy concerns. Whether you are single or in a relationship, Compassionate Conversation can ease concerns about many issues related to intimacy.
Outdates – NV Legal Brothel Escort within Nevada Only.
Consider ME your next vacation, your sex destination your romantic getaway, your YOU vacation. Nevada is a rugged and naturally beautiful State, rich in history and tourist industry as well. Check out all the things you can do here from all over the state and then imagine how nice it would to have me be your own personal tour guide and travel partner with benefits. Now THAT is truly traveling in style and you will be joining the ranks of many wise men that see the value in traveling, exploring, sight seeing, dining and doing all of Nevada – and all of me- with you.
Of course I love sex, I am easy to please and just like to have fun. I also love history, concerts, shows, festivals, events and dining in all of Nevada. From the Las Vegas Strip to the Day Trips from there to the beautiful mountains & meadows of Lake Tahoe to the ghost towns and Mining Villages and Historical Virginia City I can show you all the hidden secrets and the well known paths as well.
Be sure to contact me sooner than later. I prefer to work by appointment only. I can always accommodate any date and time so please be prepared with a time frame once I answer all your questions and you a few of mine. Please do not contact me if you are going to ghost me and not reply to me. I do expect the courtesy of a reply. Please. Thank you.
If you don’t hear from me in 48 hrs, please check your spam box.
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The Top 10 Reasons, I Call Myself Air Force Amy
Top Ten Reason For Calling Myself Air Force Amy.
Did you know that the first full week in March (the 4th-10th) is Celebrate Your Name Week? To celebrate CYNW, I have decided to revisit my Top Ten Reason For Calling Myself Air Force Amy.
1. I was on active duty in the United States Air Force, serving a full term with an Honorable Discharge. I was an Air Base Ground Defense Instructor and Anti-Terrorism Specialist and also performed Law Enforcement and Security duties. I worked with the Diplomatic Security Service, The Office of Special Investigation, Naval Intelligence, Army Special Forces, Navy Seals and thousands upon thousands of the sexiest hard-bodied men and women. I was even on the detail that escorted Marcos out of the Philippines when his government was overthrown. I am highly decorated with a Meritorious Service Media (which I worked very hard to get) “Airman of the Year,” “Woman of the Year” and “S.P. of the Year.” I was promoted twice “Below the Zone” (earlier than my peers) and also received the “John Levitow Award,” the Highest Academic Award achievable.
2. I had a worldwide reputation throughout the Armed Services for my work in clandestine, sexual endeavors (which I worked very hard at too!). It’s often been said, “If you haven’t been to one of Amy’s orgies, you missed the main benefit of serving your country!!!!”
3. I am a Disabled Veteran. I suffered a severe knee injury during an Anti-Terrorist Operation. And as my previous occupation to the military is listed as “Featured Topless Entertainer” and since I can no longer perform my act on stage because of my injury, I am disabled in the eyes of the military.
4. Since I’ve changed my appearance considerably throughout the years (I was a natural redheaded girl when I first walked into the recruitment office), I wanted my clients to know I was that “Amy” they had always known from the Air Force.
5. With such a huge portion of the male population having served or serving our country I figured if a guy can guess by my name that I was in the military too, he’ll know we have certain standards in common. Honesty, camaraderie, loyalty and (most importantly) a certain work hard and PLAY hard ethic is what you get when you come to see me.
6. In 2000, I convinced Dennis Hof to let me be called a “porn star” after starring in a film he produced at the Bunnyranch. I had to come up with a porn star name right then and there: Air Force Amy was born.
7. It’s certainly a catchy name to remember, right. I like how it rolls off the tongue. Kind of like me.
8. I live up to my motto every day: “Air Force Amy, I served my country; now I’m here and ready to SERVE you!!!!
9. I’m RED (hot) WHITE-(like an angel), but I certainly can be BLUE (when I don’t see you).
10. Lastly, I just think the name is funny. Without my sense of humor, there’s no way I could have remained as happy and successful as I have been after working in my particular industry as long as I have. No matter the circumstance, even in those things we all have to do that we don’t particularly like to do (you know, the regular crap of life) 100% of the time I end up having fun, learning something new, and making a new friend. Maybe that’s why I have a trademark fit of laughter after every orgasm…and I laugh a lot!
Air Force Amy Penthouse Magazine Feature
I was contacted by a “Penthouse’ magazine editor to give an interview to go along with my upcoming feature layout in “Penthouse Magazine”.
She wants to talk to me on the phone too, but this is what I told her so far…..
Profile Info:
Age Seriously?
Height 5’3″
Measurements (hips, waist, and bra size) 34 26 38DD
Home State (where you come from or where you consider ‘home’) I live in Dayton, NV on an Arnold Palmer Golf Course 10 minutes from the Bunnyranch
Time You’ve Worked at the Ranch 10+ yearsQ&A:
How did you start working at the Bunny Ranch? I called Madam Suzette and asked if she had any openings. I showed up and got hired right on the spot.What made you choose to go into this profession?
I chose to get into the legal brothel industry upon my honorable discharge from the USAF at Nellis AFB in Las Vegas. I did not want to carry a gun for a living any longer. I thought that dressing glamorous and getting all dolled up to be more appealing than any other civil servant job I would be qualified for.
What was it like to start working there? Tell me a little bit about your early experiences. Were you nervous or intimidated, or did you feel right at home immediately? Were you ever nervous about the work you were doing, or was that a perfect fit for you?
I had already been really quite successful in the legal brothel industry prior to working at the Bunnyracnh. I had heard through the grapevine that the Moonlite Bunnyarnch had new ownership and that the girls were allowed to leave the property unlike the industry wide “lock down” conditions wherein working girls were required to stay on property at the legal brothels for weeks and months at a time.
I was ecstatic to be able to work and leave the property to go to real estate school at the same time.
I was an extremely motivated and quite popular and extremely busy little bunny right out the gate. The Bunnyranch was and remains perfect fit for me as I appreciate all the freedoms while I still have all the extreme work ethics instilled in me as well.
– customer service, customer satisfaction, respect, beauty, class, style; the traits of true courtesan.How has sex changed for you since working at the Ranch? Were you always very sexual before this, or did the Ranch bring out your inner sex kitten? Do you enjoy sex more now since you’re more experienced, or do you not care about sex as much in your personal life since it’s now part of your job?
I’ve always been highly sexually charged. The legal brothel industry has allowed me to explore my own sexuality as well as to study a very wide range of sexual orientations full time. I love everything about sex, human touch, pleasure, entertaining and companionship. There are so many facets to all the aforementioned that there is always room for me to grow. I am like a sponge and a tap for all these beautiful things and experiences all at the same time.
I DO enjoy sex more now than ever. I have learned and experienced so many things that my life and my career are both true bliss for me. And, yes, I do orgasm very time!
What do you consider the best parts of your job at the Bunny Ranch? What things do you really love about being a Bunny? Is there anything you don’t enjoy, or that doesn’t live up to expectations?
I think one of the best parts of my job at the Bunnyranch is that I am so lucky and blessed to be able to touch so many lives with an endless supply of love and care. I truly and easily find so many things to love about all my clients that I really do fall in love every time!
Entertaining is a very rewarding experience for me. I’m not in the ‘biz just for the money. I love meeting new people, making new friends, dinner dates, seeing the sites, catching a show or a movie, companionship, great sex no strings attached and I also love and excell in raising my own bar as far as being the best “hostess with the most-est” and the number one most talented and caring courtesan of all time in the history of the world.
I also like cuddling, sleeping with and waking up in the arms of a man and doing it all over again. I love good conversation; laughter, good times, and making men and women feel good about themselves. I enjoy treating people nicely, being liked by people, and I especially love the afterglow of an experience with my clients-lovers-friends for days and (many times) years to come.
What do you consider your specialities or your areas of expertise? What do you offer that other girls may not? Are you more of a Girlfriend Experience girl, are you into kink?
I take pride in being the best in the biz and never cease to prove it. I became the best in the industry by lots of hard work, studying and consistently raising my own bar and perfecting all my skills in out of the bedroom and by my own never wanting to become bored, disenchanted or stale. Plus, my sexual drive and desire to do something good for others seems to increase every day.
Take me through a typical session with you, beginning to end. How do you get things started? What does a standard session involve? How does a date with you end?
There really isn’t a “typical” session. I cater each session to the gentleman’s desires and then add tons of my own experience to enhance his pleasure with his immediate desire always being fulfilled and then some. I like to refer people to the 100’s of reviews of my sessions at www.airforceamy.com You really don’t have enough room in this article for me to write what a session with Air Force Amy is like.
Tell me about some of the strangest requests you’ve gotten from clients. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever been asked to do? Did you accommodate the client? What was the experience like for you?
I tend to think of unique requests as just that – unique and creative. Some of my more creative requests include breaking in the bed of a new pick up truck, my honking bicycle horns with a a happy ending at the same time, balloon play and I even had a client that liked to pull me around in a pony cart while he adorned a horse hair butt plug.
What’s something that clients may not be comfortable asking for but that is actually really normal?
You’d be surprised to find out how many men do not get oral sex or 69 at home. I, myself, am completely astounded and utterly amazed at how many sexless marriages there really are.
Tell me about some of the wildest parties you’ve been part of (maybe two or three, if they stand out for you). What made them so wild? Were you expecting things to get crazy or did it come as a surprise? Did you enjoy yourself as much as the client(s)?
The wildest parties always involve three or more bunnies to at least one guy. The money, the drinks, the sex, the juices, the laughter, the singing, the dancing, the inhibitions just run wild. They are kind of like a fraternity party gone wild with sex professionals at the helm and it is all good, clean, safe adult fun and no is going to jail or catching a disease.
What’s your favorite kind of client? My favorite kind of client is one that is open minded, polite as opposed to defensive and rude.
What kind of guy (or girl) walks into the bar at the Ranch and makes you think, “I want them”? That would have to be everyone. I have learned not to discriminate. There is always at least one thing about every person that I see or meet that I will love.
And how can a client make themselves stand out for you once you’re in the bedroom? Compliments and a good massage. I just melt from compliments and massages.
What are your personal preferences? Are there some things you prefer over others? If a client came in and said that everything was up to you, what would you want to do? Talk, laugh, dance, sing, listen to music, have fun, play, orgasm, learn something new, relax, travel, explore, pamper, cuddle.
What have you learned from your time at the Ranch? Don’t sweat the small stuff, it’s all small stuff. Don’t take upsets personally. Be curious. Savor memories. Don’t judge. Always be kind, polite, helpful and grateful. Enforce boundaries. Work, work, work. Save money. All things in moderation.
What are your top sex tips for women? How can they make their men lust after them the way men lust after you? What about your tips for men? How can a guy ensure that a woman like you will say yes to him and will keep coming back for more?
Take care of your health and your body. Eat a well balanced diet and exercise. Compliment your partner. Know you and your partner’s body and mind turn ons and turn offs. Never withhold sex as a form of punishment. Gently tell your partner what turns you on, what turns you off and what you would like to try differently and additionally. Have fun. Don’t be afraid. If sex becomes a chore, quickly find out why and fix it so it becomes enjoyable and fun.
God, Masturbation, and You: The Stigma of Sexual Pleasure in Religions
Air Force Amy is the ONLY certified Clinical Sexologist, Sex Educator, Loveologist, and Sex Therapist to have practiced in any and all of Nevada’s most notable legal brothels. She is the most celebrated legal courtesan in the world. With 30 years of experience, Amy is an advocate of a sex positive society and your ultimate authority on sex and relationships. Follow @airforceamy on Twitter @airforceamyvegas on Instagram and TheAirForceAmy on Facebook.
God, Masturbation, and You: The Stigma of Sexual Pleasure in Religions
In the year of 2023, you would think that masturbation would no longer be a taboo subject, and everyone would be getting down and freaky with themselves. Unfortunately, that is still not the case.
Despite the fact that according to surveys, 60 – 80% of women and 95% of men openly admitted to masturbating, there is still a feeling of shame in engaging in such a personal act. While shame can come from family, friends, media, society, and other outlets, the most common source of shame comes from – no surprise – religion.
This shame doesn’t just localize itself to masturbation, however; sex in general, with multiple partners outside of the “sanctity of marriage” is also greatly shamed and even forbidden in religions to this day.
Today, I want to discuss with you how religious-based sex shaming began, its repercussions on society today, types of sex shaming, and how – if you are in this situation – you can overcome the fear and guilt you have and finally open up to how wonderful sex can be for you physically, mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually!
Where did sex shaming in religion begin?
To discover the origin of sex shaming in western religion, look no further than the Bible itself – many versus denounce women as temptresses, practicing whoredom and being harlots. Brides who aren’t virgins will be stoned at their father’s home doorsteps (Deut. 22:21). Anyone who cheats on a partner, male or female, will be killed (Lev. 20:10). Don’t even get me started on gay people (Lev. 20:13).
Whatever, the Bible is old, surely while aspects like adultery and practicing unsafe sex shouldn’t be encouraged, no one actually thinks people should be killed over it – right?
I wish I could quell your worries, but unfortunately, this is not the case. One notable preacher, Evangelist Kevin Swanson, publicly declares that gays should be killed. By the way, this is a man who is alive and existing in our world today. You are currently breathing the same air he breathes. Scary, right?
Attempts were made to forbid church officials to have sex – the earliest case being in 386 by Pope Siricius. You can see how well that went.
While sex is more generally accepted in today’s society through media and living arrangements, religious people still have somewhat of an aversion to practicing sex or masturbation. Studies have proven, in fact, that religious people are in general less likely to masturbate or use vibrators.
How to Recognize Religious Sexual Shame
Are people telling you to not have sex until you’re married – including personal masturbation? Ding ding ding, you’ve been shamed.
Of course, waiting until marriage to engage in sex is absolutely and completely a personal choice – I do not shame anyone for waiting or not waiting. The issue here is that people are telling women what they can and can’t do with their bodies, as if their bedroom acts dictate other people’s lives. Basically, any time someone tells you what you can and can’t do sexually is a form of sexual shame.
Are people saying you’re sinful and need to be saved if you’re attracted to people of the same sex? Congratulations – once again, you’ve been shamed.
The debate of sexuality and religion has been a long-lasting, hard-headed one. It seems that no matter what you say, you cannot convince a devout religious person that being gay or bisexual is okay. Let’s not forget the fact that being a religious gay person can totally be a thing – in fact, I have quite a few friends who are religious and openly gay or bisexual.
Perhaps people are telling you not to use birth control because that means you’re just having sex willy-nilly? Hello, shame, how are you today?
One of the biggest issues with religious shaming in terms of sexuality is the abundant amount of double standards – this includes women not being able to use birth control nor get abortions. Don’t have sex, but if you do, you better have that baby.
It also is prevalent in terms of who can have sex. Girls should wait until marriage. Virginity is sacred. But boys? Eh, boys will be boys! If the woman didn’t want attention, they shouldn’t be wearing such revealing clothes. Shame on you for tempting the boys. No wonder they had sex with you.
That’s not to say that men also can’t experience religious sexual shame – back to the masturbation talk, some religions would mutilate genitals in order to prevent men (and women) from having sex too young. This is more than just shame – this is straight up abuse.
Even looking at porn is considered fair game for shame – in religion, it’s seen as committing adultery.
In conclusion – sexual shame in religion can come in many different forms. From subtle cues in words and phrases, to straight up physical abuse, sexual shame in religion can be very scarring to those who had to grow up and endure it. Many people will stick with the religion just so they don’t have to upset anyone further, or they’ll quickly branch away as soon as they can but still have a slew of intimacy issues (understandably so).
If you are victim of sexual shame from your religious beliefs, first know that you are not alone. Many people in society are dealing with sexual shame in many forms, including religious. People you interact with every day could be on their own personal journey of overcoming sexual shame. There are plenty of people in the world who specialize in therapy specifically for these situations who are more than willing to help you.
In the meantime, here are my tips for overcoming religious (or any) sexual shame.
- Come to terms with the fact that this happened to you.
The first step to overcoming your sexual shame is to admit you have any shame at all. This can be tough. You have to be able to identify the sources of shame, and sometimes they can come from your own family or friends, or the church you’ve felt “safe” in your entire life. You may have to come to a decision to leave those people or communities, and that can be incredibly difficult. You may lose friendships. You may lose “respect” from some people.
You may also help give others the courage to leave as well.
As mentioned earlier – you are not suffering alone. There are other people struggling with religious sexual shame, and sometimes, seeing one person take action inspires others to take action as well.
Of course, this shouldn’t be your driving force – the number one person you should do this for is yourself.
- Talk to a therapist.
Therapy has much less of a stigma today than it used to – thank goodness! Sometimes talking things out with someone who will have an unbiased opinion is a great way to clear your head and really figure out the root of any sexual issues you may be having.
As a certified sex therapist, I’ve heard a slew of many different sexual issues – nothing fazes me anymore. I’m one of the best people to schedule with, whether you’re looking for an outlet for your sexual frustration, or you just want to talk! Getting an outside opinion is incredibly important, and it’s a great way to get your feelings validated.
- Conduct further research on the relationship between religions and sex.
There are actually quite a few religions that encourage the idea of exploring sexuality. Typically, eastern religions such as Buddhism are much more accepting and encouraging of being able to explore your own body and delve into sexual urges than western religions are. Consider going on a spiritual journey to figure out what type of religion might be right for you.
You could even discover that no religion fits your beliefs perfectly – and that is normal and valid. Don’t be ashamed if you end up swaying away from your original beliefs or religion. People are allowed to change their views, especially if it stems from childhood trauma.
- Realize you do not have to do anything you’re not comfortable with.
Even if you do end up finding a side of yourself that becomes more open with the world of sexuality, realize that you don’t have to partake in everything. It’s okay to wait to have sex until marriage if that’s what your moral compass tells you to do. Just make sure that it’s a decision you alone are making – not your friends, your lover, your parents, or your priest.
The most important takeaway from all of this is that you’re thinking and deciding for yourself – no one should be allowed to govern your body or your sexuality. These things are just as sacred as your religious belief itself!
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Air Force Amy – Erotic Story – XXX Hot Shower Fantasy
Air Force Amy – XXX Hot Shower Fantasy
I like to get the shower nice an steamy and soap you and I up real good ’til we are nice and slippery and then I rub my slippery breasts and hands and legs that now glide so easily into any position you want me to be in. I can rub my clitoris on your member with one of my legs wrapped behind you while you massage my breasts.
I rub you down with my erect nipples on top of my voluptuous, ever so responsive, breasts very eager for your attention. Your love muscle finds it’s way between my breasts and you slowly to vigorously fuck my titties the way you and I want it.
I turn you around and put your hands up against the wall while I give you a soap rub down and massage of your whole body, not missing a single inch. I wrap myself around you from behind and stroke your cock off with the best hands in the world (mine) while I am whispering naughty things in your ears.
A good scalp, temple and face massage is yours while you recover from your first orgasm and rest your head on my breasts working our way into round two, three and four…….
How did that feel?
Death Grip Syndrome. What is it & How to Treat it.
Death Grip Syndrome. What is it & How to Treat it
Beat The Habit, Not Your Meat!
by Air Force Amy
Death Grip Syndrome, also known as porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED), is a condition where a person becomes unable to achieve or maintain an erection during sexual activity due to excessive or prolonged use of pornography or masturbation. This condition can have a negative impact on a person’s sexual relationships and overall quality of life.
The treatment for death grip syndrome involves several approaches, including:
1. Abstinence: Stopping or reducing the use of pornography and masturbation is often the first step in treating death grip syndrome.
2. Counseling: Talking to a therapist can help a person address any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to their use of pornography or their difficulty achieving an erection.
3. Medications: In some cases, medications such as Viagra or Cialis may be prescribed to help a person achieve and maintain an erection.
4. Lifestyle changes: Adopting a healthier lifestyle, including regular exercise and a balanced diet, can also help improve sexual function.
5. Support groups: Joining a support group can provide a person with a supportive community of individuals who are also struggling with death grip syndrome and can offer advice and encouragement.
6. Re-Introduction to various sexual stimulations sans the visual porn.
It is important to note that death grip syndrome can be a complex condition, and treatment may require a combination of these approaches. Consulting with a healthcare provider, therapist, sex therapist and qualified sex professional (me, AirForceAmy) can help a person determine the best course of action for their specific needs.
Is PIED caused by the need for visual stimulation?
Yes, death grip syndrome or porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) is often caused by the excessive use of pornography or masturbation to achieve sexual arousal. This can lead to a desensitization to natural sexual stimuli such as touch, smell, and sound, and a dependence on visual stimulation to achieve or maintain an erection during sexual activity. Over time, this can result in difficulty achieving an erection or reaching orgasm during sexual activity with a partner.
The treatment for death grip syndrome usually involves reducing or stopping the use of pornography and masturbation, and focusing on other forms of sexual stimulation and intimacy with a partner to re-sensitize oneself to natural sexual stimuli. Counseling or therapy may also be helpful to address any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to the reliance on pornography or masturbation for sexual arousal.
The length of time it takes to re-sensitize oneself to natural sexual stimuli and recover from death grip syndrome or porn-induced erectile dysfunction can vary depending on the severity of the condition and the individual’s personal circumstances. Re-sensitization involves gradually reducing or eliminating the use of pornography and masturbation and focusing on other forms of sexual stimulation, such as intimacy with a partner or self-stimulation without visual aids. This process may take weeks or months, and it is important to be patient and persistent in making changes.
Working with a sex therapist or counselor can be helpful in addressing any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to the reliance on pornography or masturbation for sexual arousal. Other therapy may involve exploring and resolving past trauma, addressing anxiety or depression, or improving communication and intimacy in relationships.
It is important to note that recovery from death grip syndrome may take time and a willingness to make changes in one’s behavior and thought patterns.
Would ED pills help to return normal sexual function.
Erectile dysfunction (ED) pills, such as Viagra or Cialis, can be helpful in restoring normal sexual function in men who are experiencing ED due to physical causes, such as poor blood flow to the penis. However, ED pills may not be effective in treating porn-induced erectile dysfunction, also known as death grip syndrome, which is caused by the excessive use of pornography or masturbation.
Death grip syndrome is often related to psychological factors, such as desensitization to natural sexual stimuli or anxiety related to sexual performance. In these cases, the use of ED pills alone may not address the underlying psychological causes of the condition.
If a person is experiencing porn-induced erectile dysfunction, treatment may involve reducing or eliminating the use of pornography and masturbation, as well as addressing any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to the reliance on these behaviors for sexual arousal. In some cases, therapy or counseling may be helpful in addressing these underlying issues.
It is important to consult with a healthcare provider to determine the best course of treatment for ED or porn-induced erectile dysfunction, as the appropriate treatment will depend on the underlying causes of the condition.
My advice and reason for writing this article is of course to bring awareness to this condition but to also offer my services as certified sex therapist at the Bunnyranch. I can re introduce a person with death grip syndrome back to normalization and stimulation without the visualization of pornography and without shame or judgement.
I am a compassionate woman that loves my craft and I just want you to have the most fulfilling sex life possible. I have an arsenal of tips and tricks up my sleeve and decades of experience to help improve performance and overcome anxiety and fear based sexual tension and issues.
If you or someone you know can relate to the symptoms oin this article please do not hesitatre to email me to begin your super fun journey to a happy, fulfilling and rewarding sex life≥
Sincerely,
Air Force Amy