MATURE VIRGINS – READ THIS & THEN SEE AIR FORCE AMY!
These days, men of all ages are virgins for all sorts of reasons and let me tell you, there is no shame in that! There are few topics more fraught with anxiety and confusion – for men and women – than the idea of virginity. I can’t count the number of letters I’ve received from people desperately afraid that they’ve “left it too late”.
Some may have had physical intercourse with another person – oral sex, mutual masturbation, possibly even anal sex – but consider themselves virgins because they’ve never had penile/vaginal sex. Others may have had penetrative sex but not “count” it for one reason or another. Still others may have never so much as held hands with someone who wasn’t a family member.
Because of all of the importance placed on the concept of virginity, many people are convinced that having passed some arbitrary cut-off point renders them utterly unlovable. Or they think that although they’re getting older they will never truly be adult because they’ve never crossed the finish line.
But – and you had to know that a “but” was coming – is it too late for you? What are these late-bloomers supposed to do?
Well, when the time does come and you decide you want to have sex for the first time, I’d like to think I’m the perfect person to do it with.
For most people, their first time is really awkward. But not when it’s with me. I know that this is a big moment for you and that’s exactly how I’ll treat it. I will make you comfortable. I will help relax you (I have an arsenal of tricks at my disposal to ease into to the main course). I will be kind and I will be gentle. But I will also be passionate and as wild as you want me to be. Ask me any questions you like. By the end of your time with me, you’ll feel like sex is the best and most natural thing in the world.
I want to make this a first time you will never forget! We’ll try all sorts of sensual, sexual and effective techniques and positions that will be tailored for your unique erogenous zones. I also want to give you some new skills to take out into the world and impress the ladies. So you can try things on me too (with guidance if you need it) to see what might please other women.
I want our time together to be fun, informative, intimate and naughty. I want to give you some of the best memories of your life.
HERE ARE SOME OF THE MOST FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS I RECEIVE FROM VIRGINS
Is it strange that I’m 25-35 years+ and still a virgin?
No, not at all. I’ve heard from, helped and had a really great time with many virgins of all ages. You are not alone and I do not think you or your circumstances are strange.
I’m only 18-24. Will you still see me?
Absolutely! This whole article applies to you too!
I’m afraid that you are too experienced for me OR
My self esteem with women is nonexistent.I’m too chubby / too skinny / too_______/ not _______ enough (“fill in the blank”) & I’m not packing anything special down there.
First of all, you are enough! You are perfect, you count, you matter and I love you no matter what!
I understand your concern but you honestly have nothing to worry about in any of these respects with me. It’s actually my experience that allows me to be so patient and easygoing and to be able to teach in a soft, loving, sensual and fun manner. I am so down to earth and the absolute opposite of conceited and I could never look down on a nice person.
My tenure and success at The BunnyRanch speaks volumes about my true love of what I do. I am extremely empathetic and I never judge. If I was a judgmental person, I would never have lasted as long or been as successful as I am in this industry…it just wouldn’t work!
It might surprise you to know that I was teased quite heavily as a child and in school and I am still bullied on the internet today. I know how it feels to think you don’t fit in and to question if people like you. In my own life I do not tolerate bullying, teasing or condescending, mean or phony people. And I make sure I would never, ever do that to someone else because I know how badly it hurts.
I am an advocate for the underdog. I believe everyone deserves to be treated kindly, lovingly, sincerely and fairly. I want you to feel good about yourself and more confident, self-assured, loved, loveable and capable of establishing a very rewarding, happy and healthy sex life after seeing me.
I’m really shy around women, primarily because I don’t know how to communicate well with them. I was wondering if we could exchange a few emails before I travel to Nevada?
Absolutely. I want you to be sure that you are comfortable with me, and in your decision to see me, and I want to reassure you that I can address all your concerns and desires.
I also like getting to know you better before we meet so I can add all the details (no matter how big or small) that make your experience tailored to just you and full of those extra special touches that no one else I know would think of for you.
I am also a huge help when you’re planning your trip to see me. I’ll give you advice on everything from airfares to free ground transportation, lodging and other fun and interesting things to do here in Northern Nevada.
What will you do to relax me, and what will we do?
I know many ways to relax you. We can talk and get to know each other in person for as long as you like before we get to the main course. You will find that I am fun and silly and really good at making you feel super comfortable with me. I can hold a conversation on just about any topic on earth!
I am also very good at listening and allowing you to talk and teach me something new too. I help you to come out of your shell by asking you easy questions about your interests, the town where you live, school, your work, places you’ve visited, past relationships or lack thereof ( if you like). Or we can just talk about me and The BunnyRanch…anything that helps you feel more comfortable.
It took me many years of experience and education to master all these techniques and I don’t want to just give those secrets away right here! But please do email me and I’ll happily share more details: airforceamy@bunnyranch.com
Here is a list of my further education, degrees and certifications that make me the number one choice for your first time:
What also sets me apart from all other providers in the Legal Brothel Industry in Nevada is that I am a Certified Love and Intimacy Coach. See my Article here:
I have an Associates Degree in Sex Education and a Certificate in Clinical Sexology. See my article here>
I am slated to complete my Master of Human Sexuality degree this year.
I am studying many more areas of human relations and sexuality leading to my Doctorate Degree in Human Sexuality and these greatly enhance my services to you. I am also joining the faculty at “The Institute for the Advancement of Human Sexuality” in San Francisco in early 2016.
I’ve just embarked upon my certification in Intimate Hypnosis which I am certain will help in many areas of sexual frustration.
So, in addition to my award winning services encompassing everything from companionship to very unique sexual (and many nonsexual) requests, I am officially schooled and certified to help you in many areas of sexual relations, sex education and intimacy. And especially, your “first time”.
I GIVE AWARD WINNING SERVICE! BUT DON’T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT…CHECK OUT ALL MY AWARDS HERE
EXCERPTS FROM TESTIMONIALS FROM VERY SATISFIED VIRGINS: YOU CAN ALSO READ THE FULL TESTIMONIALS HERE
AFA took my virginity…at…well, let’s just say at a very “advanced” age. All I can say is Amy is a total sweetheart and if you make it to the ranch you will not regret choosing her.
If you are a virgin, I am convinced there is NO ONE who will take better care of you than Amy… I was lucky enough to spend a few hours with her and she was amazing. It wasn’t about the money…it wasn’t even about the sex… I am a total cynic…but for 2+ hours I honestly believe that in HER mind Amy was my girlfriend…and all she wanted to do was please me.
-Wabbit Hunter
Unfortunately, I have had the misfortune of being overweight all my life, which has left me with low self-esteem and terrible shyness with women. I found myself still a virgin at age 33 and with no sight of my soul-mate to be found anywhere. But a few e-mails and one very nervous phone call later, I had an appointment to see Amy.
I must say, Amy is even more beautiful in person and my jaw must have dropped to the floor when I first saw her. After a warm hello hug, we talked for a while before we got our drinks and Amy took me for a tour of the facilities. Before long, we made the trip down to Amy’s room at the end of the hall. Knowing this was my first time, she had the room romantically lit in red to make things more relaxing. Air Force Amy was more than I could have ever imagined. I know she is more known for her wild side, but she has a very soft, gentle and romantic side as well. Not only did she make me feel very comfortable from the start, but she did wonders with my self-esteem and made me feel like a porn star.
-Anonymous
“Amy was exceptional. My two hours flew by and I came three times. Amy you are THE BEST EVER!!!!
Thanks for making my first time so special.”
-First timer from Nashville
Amy has this way of talking to you, of laughing with you, of asking just the right questions and never judging, never assuming that made me feel really comfortable. I mean, even if I wasn’t going to her for you-know-what she would still be a girl I’d like to meet.
My confidence went way up (that’s not the only thing that went way up!) when I got Amy to cum just by her showing where to touch and kiss her and so many pointers, I’m sure I’ll remember at least a few for my next experience. Thank you Amy, you really do provide service of epic proportion.
When in matrimonial bliss, it’s common to be rocking the bed every day – you just got married, your partner looked hot A.F. at the wedding, and your chemistry has rekindled. This, like all good things, however, comes to an end.
From potentially having children to take care of, to changes in the body causing self-esteem issues, the reasons for that deflating libido are endless. Despite this, there is most likely one of you who still wants to get freaky more often than the other.
Is has to be the guy, right? Well, shove this in his face (or, if you’re male, get ready for a rude awakening); the rate of lower sex libidos in married couples is actually split 50/50 between men and women.
Whether you’re the bunny or the dozing bull in your marriage, I’ve got five hot tips to tell you how you can remedy your mismatched sex drive in marriage – including how I can help you personally.
Change Up Your Routine
Whenever I hear about couples who happen to have sex every Wednesday night, or – God forbid – “schedule” their sex, I visibly cringe! No wonder your libidos are low – you’re probably bored because you know when it’s coming! Let it be spontaneous and fun – do it in a different room, or in the car – heck, do it during a different time of the day, and it’ll already begin to feel like a brand new experience for the both of you!
Give Yourself a Little Lovin’
You’ve probably heard the phrase, “In order to love others, you must first learn to love yourself,” right? Let me tell you right now – that isn’t just emotionally. A big reason why couples have mismatched libidos or an unsatisfying sex life is because they forgot – or simply just don’t know – how they themselves like to be pleasured.
Masturbation is a perfect way to boost confidence, figure out what you love during foreplay, and get you revved up to the point where you’ll have no choice but to grab your partner and go! Plus, you can kick it up a notch and explore mutual masturbation – by watching each other, you get that extra visual education on what your partner likes and dislikes.
Speaking of mutual masturbation….
Explore New Kinks and Toys
It can be very difficult to open up about your secret sexual interests, whether you’ve been with someone for 10 weeks, 10 months, or 10 years. Perhaps society has trained you to believe that what you like is shameful, or that you should never share it with anyone else. This thought process alone can kill your libido, no matter who you’re sharing it with.
Believe it or not, this is a conversation that is best started outside of the bedroom. Bringing up the fact that, “Oh, by the way, I like this very specific act that you may have never heard of before” during sex can make things very awkward, especially if the other party doesn’t feel comfortable. Talking in a neutral setting will make it easier to be honest, bring you closer together, and not deflate any boners (assuming no one has one at the time).
Not only should you share your hidden desires, but be sure to be attentive and create a welcoming environment to your partner’s desires, too – fairness is very important in a relationship. Don’t be afraid to talk about what you’re willing to do and not do; creating boundaries is just as important as breaking them.
And, most importantly, never shame anyone for what they’re interested in.
Make the Bedroom Your Sex Sanctuary
While I mentioned earlier that you should try having sex in different places, that doesn’t mean you should neglect the bedroom entirely. Make it an experience for all the senses – dim the lights, light some candles, play some music, get some ice cubes or feathers, perhaps some strawberries – this should look and feel like a big event. Keep a drawer designated for all your toys and props an arms-length away so you won’t have to do a naked run to a different part of the house, potentially killing the mood.
Think about this in terms of when you aren’t having sex either; in my mind, your bedroom should be your favorite part of the house. Get the coziest blanket and the softest sheets and pillows; decorate it like your dream home. Make it an area that you look forward to going to.
If I were you, I would take it a step further and ban any electronics or stress-inducers. This means no cell phones, no television, no laptops or textbooks. Your bedroom should be for nothing but sex and sleep.
Get an Outside Opinion…or Third Party Involved
Perhaps you’ve already tried these options. While your sex itself may have improved, you still find yourself wanting more, or you still sometimes don’t feel like initiating it, depending on which libido you have. This is the time when I suggest getting a professional opinion.
No, I don’t mean a therapist. Though technically, I am one!
I’m here for you if you just want to talk things out. My certifications give me a very well-rounded perspective on many types of issues in the bedroom, and I ensure that I book enough time with you so that it’s not just a case of sex-and-go; we could spend an entire evening discussing your dilemmas if you wanted to!
Getting an outside opinion may be hard, because it means admitting fault to someone else. But once you get it out in the open, I promise you, it becomes a lot easier to deal with. The first step to fixing any issue is admitting you have one, right?
Having mismatched sex drives can seem absolutely devastating in a relationship, married or otherwise. But, if you two are willing to take the time to work on it, and if you try out these tips, I can assure you that you’ll be on the same sexual wavelength in no time.
Ready to talk about your libidos or bang it out with me? Book a one-on-one session with me today!
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I thought I was going to write this article to men thinking the wife would be the one suffering low libido.
Imagine my surprise when I found out it was a 50/50 chance that either partner could be the one afflicted.
Ladies, I find it absolutely imperative you recognize what might be happening in your sexless marriage. We are so conditioned to think the male has such virility (it just has to be something wrong with the gal/he must not think you are so attractive any longer blah, blah blah).
The only way to fix something is to identify there is a problem, or a mismatch or a hiccup or whatever you want to call it.
If you are not experiencing the sex life you would like or the one that you envision or used to have.
Identify what is going on and shoot me an email if you’d like me to help you figure it out and help you fix it or help you get the sex life you really want.
Yours truly, was just mentioned in the New Yorker. How cool is that? In the recently published, “The Lorena Bobbitt Story Offers New Lessons on Male Vulnerability,” article (https://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/the-lorena-bobbitt-story-offers-new-lessons-on-male-vulnerability) writer Rebecca Mead gives me a great shout out. In her review of the newly released 4-part Amazon documentary, “Lorena” Rebecca mentions her first interview of me in 2001 and that was a great piece about me in the “Money Edition” of The New Yorker.
Recently we spoke of my dealings with John Wayne Bobbitt and more specifically, what did I recall of him the time while I worked with him at the Moonlight Bunnyranch. I related stories of his constant ineptitude and lack of better judgment that, to this day, are some of the best “Bunnyranch, PR gone wrong” stories ever.
For example, there was the time John was supposed to be driving a limo full of working ladies to and from an engagement at a casino, and he got too drunk while partaking of the casino games and drink while waiting on the ladies. The ladies had to find him, and John was so drunk he had to have one the ladies drive the limo back to the Bunnyranch.
Wrong on so many levels, but ok in the eyes of John Wayne Bobbitt.
Not a full deck of cards with John Wayne Bobbitt? Is the old elevator not going all the way up? Not the sharpest tool in the shed? Or was he just one of the few predatory, misogynist sociopaths that surfaced during a quickly passing five minutes of fame in the 1990s?
What I say in the last episode of the documentary, I felt at the time and pretty much still do… Bobbitt’s on/off/then on again penis was the most interesting aspect of the entire media explosion that followed the infamous incident he was part of.
Are you on any medications that may be interfering with your erection? If not, I hate to say it, but it might just be age and believe it or not – lack of use. I hate to be blunt, but there it is.
The great news is that there is hope!!
You can start by doing what I call “Kegel exercises for your cock”. You can search that same phrase on Youtube and find the exercises you need. Google these terms: Kegel Exercises For Men – How To Last Longer in Bed With Kegel Exercise | Male Kegeling
Here are a couple that I like.
2. I also highly recommend Cialis, a Rx you would need to get from your doctor. I have clients in their late seventies and 80’s that use this “erection in a pill” and it really, really works better than the hundreds of other male enhancement rip offs that are available.
OR you may still have the erection and endurance you wish for but just couldn’t muster up in the last years of your marriage. Your thoughts and your visual stimulants control the majority of your erection.
3. I provide optimum conditions to arouse even the dead!
I provide an innumerable amount of ambiance and I pay attention to every little detail to totally turn me and you on.
I always say to myself that if the gentleman I am with does not have an erection before I even book the money, well then, I haven’t done my job.
Take it from there to my being able to relate to all people at all levels in building rapport.
Add to your experience, my own personal love nest that I have created throughout the years that add an unparalleled ambiance.
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I thought I was going to write this article to men thinking the wife would be the one suffering low libido.
Imagine my surprise when I found out it was a 50/50 chance that either partner could be the one afflicted.
Ladies, I find it absolutely imperative you recognize what might be happening in your sexless marriage. We are so conditioned to think the male has such virility (it just has to be something wrong with the gal/he must not think you are so attractive any longer blah, blah blah).
The only way to fix something is to identify there is a problem, or a mismatch or a hiccup or whatever you want to call it.
If you are not experiencing the sex life you would like or the one that you envision or used to have.
Identify what is going on and shoot me an email if you’d like me to help you figure it out and help you fix it or help you get the sex life you really want.
Sincerely,
Air Force Amy