Overcome Shyness and Gain Social Confidence with Air Force Amy!
I think it is important to note the difference between an introvert and someone who is shy.
Approximately half the population is introverted—more males are introverted than females—and there is nothing wrong with that. Being shy, however, is being scared of interaction.
Introverts are not necessarily scared of interaction, though I would say that almost all shy people are introverts.
The majority of introverts simply want to be left alone. They need to recharge their batteries after a social event. They get a lot more stimulation out of reading a book or online discussion than meeting new people at a party. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I find often times find myself in that category.
I wrote this article because the number one complaint I get from men in their emails to me is that they are, in their own words, “over” shy or “extremely” shy and especially around women. I want you to know that I am aware of this plight and I am equipped to help you in many ways, especially when you can come see me at the Bunnyranch for some one on one time.
Do you want to overcome shyness or anxiety and be confident and charismatic? Do you want to make effortless conversation with anyone, make friends and get dates easily?
I can help you get the social confidence that you desire. And I am not talking about giving you non effective positive affirmations to recite or silly exercises to do at home. I am talking about one on one crash coaching in the most effective “crash course” friendly environment that no book or online course can give you.
We begin by you emailing me. You can do that. Just contact me below saying you are a shy guy to and the course begins! We will correspond. I will ask you simple questions that are the same as you having a conversation without the anxiety of actually being face to face. We will get to know each other and you will have to choose a date and time within a reasonable period of time for practical application with me at the Bunnyranch. I will ask you to call in a deposit to the Bunnyranch with an open date or a date of your choice in any dollar amount of your choice so that we can continue to correspond and even by phone and/or Skype when you are ready.
So, go ahead and hit my contact button and we can get you started in over coming your shyness, being more confident and making effortless conversation, meeting women and getting you in the dating field too.
When our interest in sex starts to wane, exposure to a new or novel partner has a way of bringing it back. This phenomenon–formally dubbed the Coolidge Effect–got its name from a popular anecdote about a visit that U.S. President Calvin Coolidge and his wife supposedly made to a chicken farm. The story goes something like this:
“Mrs. Coolidge, observing the vigor with which one particularly prominent rooster covered hen after hen, asked the guide to make certain that the President took note of the rooster’s behavior. When President Coolidge got to the hen yard, the rooster was pointed out and his exploits recounted by the guide, who added that Mrs. Coolidge had requested that the President be made aware of the rooster’s prowess. The president reflected for a moment and replied, ‘Tell Mrs. Coolidge that there is more than one hen.’” [1]
The Coolidge Effect has been documented in several animal species. For instance, research has found that when a male rat is placed inside a cage with several female rats that are in heat, he will mate with all of them until he appears exhausted. However, if a new female is then introduced to the cage, males often experience an immediately renewed interest in sex and begin mating with her [2].
The Coolidge Effect has been documented in humans as well. For instance, in one study, male participants were either exposed to constant or varied sexual stimuli while their level of sexual arousal was measured by a device that records changes in penile circumference [3]. The men who were repeatedly shown the same stimuli showed less arousal over time (in other words, they demonstrated habituation); by contrast, men who were exposed to varied stimuli maintained higher levels of arousal.
Another study found that, after watching porn clips featuring the same actress over a period of several days, exposure to porn featuring a new actress was linked not only to faster ejaculation, but also the release of more active sperm [4]. This suggest that the Coolidge Effect may have an evolutionarily explanation behind it in that it might potentially increase men’s odds of reproductive success with new partners.
The Coolidge Effect has also been documented in females, although the pattern tends to be somewhat less pronounced. For instance, research on female hamsters has found that after mating with one male hamster until exhaustion, they demonstrate renewed interest in sex when a new male is introduced to the cage [5]. Also, research on women has found that, just like men, they show some degree of habituation in response to repeated presentations of the same erotic stimulus [6]. What this tells us is that the Coolidge Effect isn’t a uniquely male phenomenon by any stretch of the imagination.
“Declining sexual interest in a long-term partner and being excited by variety is probably to be expected, rather than a sign that there’s something wrong with you or your relationship.”
As you might imagine, the Coolidge Effect has important implications for our romantic relationships. In particular, it suggests that declining sexual interest in a long-term partner and being excited by variety is probably to be expected, rather than a sign that there’s something wrong with you or your relationship.
So what can a couple do to combat this potential decrease in sexual interest? Contact me below for options!
Empowering Intimate Therapies Across Nevada’s Legal Brothels
My formal education in human sexuality isn’t just a credential—it’s the foundation of my intimate therapies, couples counseling, and sex education, offered at Nevada’s premier legal brothels. With 35 years of experience and a deep well of professional training, I bring competence and care to my clients and the colleagues I mentor. This creates a safe, legal environment built on compassion, patience, and understanding. Explore my certifications, degrees, and how they enhance your experience with thoughtful, expert guidance. Let’s dive into my credentials and see how they elevate your journey!
As a certified sexologist, I’m trained to understand and teach human sexuality with depth and empathy. This allows me to provide sex education that fosters intimate confidence in a safe, legal setting, guiding clients with patience and understanding.
This unique credential centers on love, relationships, and connection. It enriches my couples therapies, offering a compassionate space for partners to rebuild intimacy with care and competence.
With this certification, I use hypnosis to deepen intimacy and pleasure. My intimate therapies unlock desires, boost confidence, and address past challenges, all with a gentle, experienced approach rooted in care.
This method equips me to help clients explore their values and beliefs about sexuality with patience and insight—practical tools for growth delivered with understanding.
These aren’t just titles—they’re skills I use every day, blending my Air Force Amy legacy of resilience and 35 years of experience with your personal journey in sensualities.
How It Fuels My Craft
My education and 35 years of experience keep me sharp and compassionate in Nevada’s legal brothel industry. I offer intimate therapies that heal, educate, and empower, while mentoring others with care. My training enhances my ability to provide bedroom education, promote sensuality with patience, and maintain ethical practices—like my focus on human trafficking awareness. Whether I’m drawing on my Air Force Amy background or sharing knowledge with colleagues, my education and empathy shine through every interaction.
Benefits for Clients Across Nevada’s Legal Brothels
For you, my credentials mean an experience rooted in expertise, compassion, and care, backed by 35 years in the field. First-timers find a patient, understanding guide in me, easing into intimacy with gentleness. Clients healing from past challenges benefit from tailored intimate therapies, while couples rediscover connection through thoughtful counseling. My sexual attitude reassessment opens new possibilities, and surrogate services offer healing—all delivered with competence and heart at Nevada’s legal brothels. Book a session and feel the difference my education and experience bring!
Empowering Nevada’s Courtesans
As a leader in the industry, I mentor courtesans across Nevada’s legal brothels, sharing my expertise in sex education, human sexuality, and ethical practices honed over 35 years. They learn intimate therapies to support newcomers with patience, couples therapies to foster connection with care, and human trafficking awareness to ensure safety with compassion. My Air Force Amy experience adds depth, helping them grow with confidence in a lawful, supportive environment. Together, we elevate Nevada’s legal brothel scene with skill and understanding.
Real-World Impact
My education isn’t just knowledge—it’s action. With 35 years in Nevada’s legal brothels, I blend formal training with practical experience to offer intimate therapies that heal and inspire. My commitment to human trafficking awareness reflects my care for integrity, while surrogate services support personal growth with compassion. Curious about sexology? Check out this guide on human sexuality for a glimpse into my world. Wherever I work in Nevada’s legal brothel scene, I bring education, experience, and empathy to every encounter.
Step Into Educated Bliss
Experience my intimate therapies at Nevada’s legal brothels. Book a session for sex education, intimate confidence, or couples counseling in a safe, legal environment, and explore my 35-year legacy as Air Force Amy at airforceamy.com. Meet the courtesans I’ve mentored and see their shine! For more on sexology, visit this resource. My education, experience, and compassionate approach are your keys to an exceptional experience—let’s unlock it together!
My Unmatched Legacy
I am the only certified Clinical Sexologist, Sex Educator, Loveologist, and Sex Therapist working across Nevada’s legal brothels. With the most certifications, formal degrees, and 35 years of hands-on experience of any legal courtesan in history, I lead the field in human sexuality, intimacy, relationships, and social skills. I’m an officially Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, bringing professional excellence, compassion, and care to every client I serve..
( I also have my degrees certified under my government name. The schools allowed me certificates under my stage name as well for obvious reasons.)
I offer a unique approach to Life Coaching with an emphasis on Sexuality. It is a Multi-dimensional, goal-oriented approach to finding practical solutions to current or long-standing sexuality and intimacy concerns. Whether you are single or in a relationship, Compassionate conversation can ease concerns about many issues related to intimacy. Be sure to contact me!
I have completed my studies and I am a “Certified Love Coach” through Dr Ava Cadell’s online Lovelology University.
Don’t let the name fool you. This course is fully accredited and each of the 36 areas of study come with their own certificate of completion that meet the qualifications for 7 hours of continuing education credit for MFTs, LCSWs and/or Nurses as required by the “California Board of Behavioral Sciences” PCE #3756 and”California Board of Registered Nursing” CEP# 14912.
I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH VALUABLE INFORMATION ON SEX , INTIMACY, LOVE AND RELATIONS WHILE STUDYING & TESTING FOR MY CERTIFICATION TO BE A “CERTIFIED LOVE COACH” AND “LOVEOLOGIST” via Dr Ava Cadell’s online Loveology University
Through LU, I have gained a vast knowledge of ways to make a difference in my life and the quality of lives of others.
I feel I have more accurate and current information with respect to love, intimacy, relationships and sexuality that I can pass on.
The subject matters have all ignited my own passion for empowering my clients from all ages over 18, genders, walks of life and marital status to live and love at their full potential.
Although I have 35 yrs of practical experience as a legal sex worker, I have most importantly learned how to communicate a clear vision, backed by a definite plan to assist client’s personal power and positive growth.
I find all the extra Resources Dr Cadell has placed at my disposal within this course to be a limitless and invaluable source to ever increase my knowledge and continue to be cutting –edge in coaching techniques and in schools of thought that will always enhance my ability to empower my clients to give and receive love and feel the best they can about themselves
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This course is fully accredited and each of the 36 areas of study come with their own certificate of completion that meet the qualifications for 7 hours of continuing education credit for MFTs, LCSWs and/or Nurses as required by the “California Board of Behavioral Sciences” PCE #3756 and”California Board of Registered Nursing” CEP# 14912.
TOPICS COVERED INCLUDED:
– INTIMACY & DISABILITIES – Certified!
– FEMALE ANATOMY & AROUSAL – Certified!
– MALE ANATOMY & AROUSAL – Certified!
– KISSING – Certified!
– FLIRTING – Certified!
– DATING – Certified!
– SELF PLEASURING – Certified!
– COMMUNICATION – Certified!
– COUPLES ENRICHMENT – Certified!
– FOREPLAY – Certified!
– INTIMACY – Certified!
– LOVE – Certified!
– PLEASING A MAN – Certified!
– PLEASING A WOMAN – Certified!
– BACK DOOR PLAY – Certified!
– EROTIC MASSAGE – Certified!
– EROTIC TALK – Certified!
– FANTASIES AND ROLE PLAYING – Certified!
– ORAL PLEASURE – Certified!
– MALE LOVERS – Certified!
– PLAYFUL POSITIONS – Certified!
– WOMEN LOVING WOMEN – Certified!
– ADULT TOYS – Certified!
– APHRODISIACS – Certified!
– BOUNDARIES AND TABOOS – Certified!
– CULTURAL AND RELIGIOUS INFLUENCES ON SEX – Certified!
– EROTICISM – Certified!
– FOOT WORSHIP – Certified!
– G-SPOT – Certified!
– GROUP EROTICA – Certified!
– POLYAMORA – Certified!
– POWER PLAY – Certified!
– TANTRIC LOVE – Certified!
– HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT SEX – Certified!
– THE BIG “O” – Certified!
Associate in Sex Education with I.A.S.H.S.Associate in Sex Education Certificate
This certificate prepares professionals to answer sexual questions and provide relevant sex education to their respective clientele. The required 150 hours of credit will focus on sex education videos, the history of sexology, and developmental sexology throughout the life span. It will include courses on DVD and textbooks and a comprehensive workbook of monographs, the SAR Guide for a Better Sex Life, personal exercises, and self-testing forms. All materials will be retained by the student for future use.
Clinical Sexology Certificate
This certificate is given upon completion of the Associate in Sex Education and 150 additional hours of study in the following program areas: socio-cultural implications of sexology; sexual anatomy and physiology; health perspectives; sexual dysfunctions; legal/ethical issues; and erotology. Attendance at a one-week course (or two weekend courses) at the Institute is a requirement.
Knowledge is power. Knowledge in the bedroom is a courtesy to your partners and the best gift you can give yourself.
Generally, psychologists and physicians describe a “sexless marriage” as having 10 or fewer instances of sex per year. Therefore, many relationships are not sexless by that definition, but are still “dead” in terms of one partner persistently withdrawing from sexual intimacy beyond acceptable limits for their spouse.
You are not alone. I offer a safe, legal, discreet manner in which to alleviate your frustrations. Bring your partner or meet me individually to discuss your options!
When you think of a man hiring a hooker, you might find yourself thinking that they’re being perverts or misogynists, especially if you find out that they’re family men. You might even find yourself judging them when you find out that about half of the men who hire sex workers are men who are in relationships. However, studies have shown that that’s very far from the truth: the men who hire sex workers while in relationships are men that are craving an emotional bond beyond what their relationships are currently giving them. No matter what you think of this morally, the fact remains that this is happening, and there are a lot of reasons why. Here are just a few reasons why men hire sex workers while in relationships.
Death Grip Syndrome, also known as porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED), is a condition where a person becomes unable to achieve or maintain an erection during sexual activity due to excessive or prolonged use of pornography or masturbation. This condition can have a negative impact on a person’s sexual relationships and overall quality of life.
The treatment for death grip syndrome involves several approaches, including:
1. Abstinence: Stopping or reducing the use of pornography and masturbation is often the first step in treating death grip syndrome.
2. Counseling: Talking to a therapist can help a person address any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to their use of pornography or their difficulty achieving an erection.
3. Medications: In some cases, medications such as Viagra or Cialis may be prescribed to help a person achieve and maintain an erection.
4. Lifestyle changes: Adopting a healthier lifestyle, including regular exercise and a balanced diet, can also help improve sexual function.
5. Support groups: Joining a support group can provide a person with a supportive community of individuals who are also struggling with death grip syndrome and can offer advice and encouragement.
6. Re-Introduction to various sexual stimulations sans the visual porn.
It is important to note that death grip syndrome can be a complex condition, and treatment may require a combination of these approaches. Consulting with a healthcare provider, therapist, sex therapist and qualified sex professional (me, AirForceAmy) can help a person determine the best course of action for their specific needs.
Is PIED caused by the need for visual stimulation?
Yes, death grip syndrome or porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) is often caused by the excessive use of pornography or masturbation to achieve sexual arousal. This can lead to a desensitization to natural sexual stimuli such as touch, smell, and sound, and a dependence on visual stimulation to achieve or maintain an erection during sexual activity. Over time, this can result in difficulty achieving an erection or reaching orgasm during sexual activity with a partner.
The treatment for death grip syndrome usually involves reducing or stopping the use of pornography and masturbation, and focusing on other forms of sexual stimulation and intimacy with a partner to re-sensitize oneself to natural sexual stimuli. Counseling or therapy may also be helpful to address any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to the reliance on pornography or masturbation for sexual arousal.
The length of time it takes to re-sensitize oneself to natural sexual stimuli and recover from death grip syndrome or porn-induced erectile dysfunction can vary depending on the severity of the condition and the individual’s personal circumstances. Re-sensitization involves gradually reducing or eliminating the use of pornography and masturbation and focusing on other forms of sexual stimulation, such as intimacy with a partner or self-stimulation without visual aids. This process may take weeks or months, and it is important to be patient and persistent in making changes.
Working with a sex therapist or counselor can be helpful in addressing any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to the reliance on pornography or masturbation for sexual arousal. Other therapy may involve exploring and resolving past trauma, addressing anxiety or depression, or improving communication and intimacy in relationships.
It is important to note that recovery from death grip syndrome may take time and a willingness to make changes in one’s behavior and thought patterns.
Would ED pills help to return normal sexual function.
Erectile dysfunction (ED) pills, such as Viagra or Cialis, can be helpful in restoring normal sexual function in men who are experiencing ED due to physical causes, such as poor blood flow to the penis. However, ED pills may not be effective in treating porn-induced erectile dysfunction, also known as death grip syndrome, which is caused by the excessive use of pornography or masturbation.
Death grip syndrome is often related to psychological factors, such as desensitization to natural sexual stimuli or anxiety related to sexual performance. In these cases, the use of ED pills alone may not address the underlying psychological causes of the condition.
If a person is experiencing porn-induced erectile dysfunction, treatment may involve reducing or eliminating the use of pornography and masturbation, as well as addressing any underlying psychological or emotional issues that may be contributing to the reliance on these behaviors for sexual arousal. In some cases, therapy or counseling may be helpful in addressing these underlying issues.
It is important to consult with a healthcare provider to determine the best course of treatment for ED or porn-induced erectile dysfunction, as the appropriate treatment will depend on the underlying causes of the condition.
My advice and reason for writing this article is of course to bring awareness to this condition but to also offer my services as certified sex therapist at the Bunnyranch. I can re introduce a person with death grip syndrome back to normalization and stimulation without the visualization of pornography and without shame or judgement.
I am a compassionate woman that loves my craft and I just want you to have the most fulfilling sex life possible. I have an arsenal of tips and tricks up my sleeve and decades of experience to help improve performance and overcome anxiety and fear based sexual tension and issues.
If you or someone you know can relate to the symptoms oin this article please do not hesitatre to email me to begin your super fun journey to a happy, fulfilling and rewarding sex life≥
There’s a scene in the adult film harlot (Sin City, 2005) where Kimberly Kane, playing a secretary, is summoned to the office of her boss, played by Chris Cannon. She arrives holding a pad and pen, ready to take his dictation, perhaps for a letter. Instead, the boss whirls around in his padded office chair to face her with his legs open. He’s got a noticeable bulge in his pants, and he makes it clear that he intends to give dicktation instead (sorry, couldn’t resist the pun). So she unzips his pants, massages his shaft gently to full hardness, removes her panties from under her skirt, settles herself on his cock, and they start to fuck.
Then something remarkable happens—remarkable for a porn video, and remarkable in real life: Instead of giving themselves over to wild humping, grunting, groaning, and other such physical theatrical behavior typical for porn, they start having—a conversation. A casual, easy conversation while Chris is balls-deep in Kim’s flowery, expressive, lusciously, incredibly fuckable coochie.
In what must rank as one of the classic porn scenes of recent times, these actors continue to chat companionably while they steadily grind away. They speak in full sentences uninterrupted by the loud moans of pleasure they surely want to utter. Kim, in character, brags to “boss” Chris all about her husband, “Henry,” who is so hot for her that “He wants to fuck me every night,” she says. “Every night?” Chris asks, incredulous. “Every night!” she emphasizes passionately, bearing down extra strongly with her toned vaginal muscles on his solid whang.
At this point in the scene, so much sexual tension has been built up that it’s easy to imagine lots of viewers’ cocks springing up around the nation and spontaneously ejaculating even without the help of Five-Fingered Willy. Those that hadn’t stripped off their pants or underwear probably got them soaked with cum for the first time since they had wet dreams in youth. And, it’s also easy to imagine that their lady friends or wives watching next to them were moved to lean over and fasten their lips around those straining cocks. And maybe, being expert with language as most women are, some of those ladies sucked their guys off while pausing for teasing talk: “I’m gonna blow you until you’re ready to fuck my tight little pussy, okay? Just yell when you’re ready, honey…”
Ladies and gentlemen, let’s tell the dirty truth: Few of us are thinking straight when we’re fucking. That’s the fun of it; allowing yourself to fly your freak flag, ride the wild stallion, make forest sounds, and visualize yourself as your spirit animal running wild. People are not likely to be quoting Shakespeare or even their favorite comedian or movie line while they’re copulating crazily. They make primal sounds, wail, curse, and spout strings of words that make no sense at all. Probably every girl that’s fucked a guy has heard him gibber nonsense sounds like “Salabagunda! Jizny watz! ARGGUUHH! (That’s, of course, the vocalization of his shattering climax.)
Everyone goes a little funny in the head when they’re sexing it up. The woman riding a thick cock experiences and secretly enjoys mental flashes of experiences with other men while she’s being joyously penetrated by her current lover. Meanwhile, he’s picturing her as one of the hottest courtesans from Game of Thrones. Fucking is (usually) not about conversation or creating a narrative.
But we can change that, if you’d like to try. Sex can be an exciting, dramatic game; imagine having the supreme discipline, when inside a woman, of keeping your wits clear enough to articulate strings of words without descending into the ecstatic babbling that’s so natural to men when their cocks encounter the Power of the Pussy.
President Trump has been quoted as saying “You’ve got to grab them by the pussy.” Well, reverse that: What will you do when my pussy grabs you, to borrow Jim Morrison’s line, “like a warm fist”? Will you say “Oh my dear, thank you so much for this wonderful experience” as you thrust deeply into me? Most likely, you will gibber and jabber throughout our intimate encounter and will leave shattered and relieved and happy. Which is fine.
But think of what can happen if you take the Sex-Talk Challenge. If we’re having a party for two, using our words can slow the sex down to an exquisite crawl, a slow, comfortable screw (like the drink). You can reminisce about the first time you felt your penis slipping into a girl’s mouth while I blow some tunes on your gloved-up sexaphone. Or you can confess all the dirty details of that drunken doggie-style fuck you enjoyed with a coworker on a business trip while I play her role. Or you can reveal your long-standing desire to hump your sexy sister-in-law. You see, sex talk can be psychologically cleansing.
Now, if we’re a party of three (you, me, and your wife or girlfriend) the talk can get really revelatory and wildly stimulating. She can watch as I jack up your dick while you tell her, “I’ve always-uh!-had the fantasy of having you look on while another woman grabs my cock.” You might be surprised, and very excited, to hear her answer back, “Well, I’ve never been finger-fucked by another woman, and I think it would get us both off if you watched another woman spread my legs and open up my cunny with two fingers.” Of course, I’d be happy to snap on a latex glove, apply some lubricant, and oblige her secret desire. By the time I finish finger-banging her to a couple or more climaxes, you’ll have an erection so hard you could almost drill through wood with your woody. But instead, you’ll have two horny ladies waiting for you to fuck them good and hard. You might find yourself shouting the famous Mel Brooks line from History of the World, Part 1: “It’s good (deep, powerful penile thrust) to be the King!” as you ram us (and yourself) silly.
So bring me your conversation along with your desire. I can teach you how to talk dirty like a rough, manly construction worker or a refined gentleman. Cum together with me, and I’ll show you how affectionate exchanges of naughty compliments can enhance and lengthen sex. You can imagine me as that pretty, shy girl in your college class that you always wanted to approach and announce: “I want to lay you naked on a soft bed, put your legs in the air, and pile drive your pussy until you have a screaming orgasm.” Not the usual thing you say in polite company out in the world. But in our world, you can say anything you want. Words have power: to persuade, to admonish, but also to make sex even better than you ever imagined.
Let Me Show You How to Have a Rewarding Sex Life After Injuries, Aging and Limited Mobility
Hi everyone! I’m Air Force Amy – one of the most popular, highly sought-after courtesans of all time! After being in the military, I joined up with the Chicken Ranch and then throughout my award winning career, I became a certified Clinical Sexologist, Sex Educator, Loveologist and Sex Therapist and I want to share the following product and better sex information with you.
My products of choice throughout my career have been those offered by Liberator . The first and foremost product of my choice is the Esse Chaise II – and I chose to elaborate on why they can be beneficial for people with injuries, aging bodies and otherwise limited mobility to get back in the saddle, so to speak.
When something traumatizing happens to you in your life, it can really put a damper on your ego in many ways. Depending on what happened, and even just the aging process, you may feel as though you have to rely on others for emotional support, or you feel discomfort in leaving your home. It’s also important to address the physical issues and injuries that can arise during traumatizing experiences or just as a part of the aging process, and what assistance you may need after the fact. It may become difficult to do daily tasks, hobbies, cleaning, or even showering, and this can make anyone feel depressed and frustrated due to the fact that they can no longer do all the things they could do in their 20’s or even 30’s 40’s and 50’s..
A less addressed way an injury can affect our ego is in the bedroom. Depending on the injury, sex can become difficult, painful, or just downright impossible. It can be incredibly bruising to the ego to go from someone who actively participated in and enjoyed sex (and was, depending on who’s talking, good at it *wink*) to someone who can’t even get out of bed without assistance, let alone romp around in it.
Naturally, this can cause feelings of shame, depression, and dejection. It can also, unsurprisingly, cause intimacy issues in a relationship. Your partner may be trying everything they can to help you, but because you are too ashamed to even try, it can make your partner distant or unsure of how to help. This of course doesn’t help intimacy, but rather perpetuates a feeling of disconnect between two people over an uncontrollable circumstance.
The first step to overcoming and improving injury is to know that you aren’t any less of the person you were pre-injury. If it’s temporary, know that you will soon be back to the person you were before, with the same mind, soul, emotions, and sex drive you had before. If it’s permanent, you can still have this mindset. You may walk a little differently, or your shoulder may ache from time to time, but – neither of these things will prevent you from having sex in the future, and it doesn’t take away from your attractiveness or prowess in the sheets.
The second step is to research – and do -exercises and stretches that can help you heal quicker and make sexual activities more comfortable for you while you’re recovering or rediscovering your body. If you have a major injury, you most likely are working with a physical therapist – don’t be afraid to ask them about what you can do to make sex more comfortable! They are there to help you heal and regain your strength, along with how to do normal everyday activities easy again. Guess what? Sex is one of those everyday activities!
The third step is to look into other options that can help you with sex while you recover or settle in to your mature years. This is where you can have fun a make the healing process more enjoyable!
So – I’m going to be candid with you right now and skip the fluff. For this step, I highly recommend checking out Liberator.
Their furniture is specifically designed to help with position aid and work in tandem with intimate accessories that help increase mobility, stamina, and of course pleasure. Their furniture also works for any couples of any body type and size – while one size may fit all, you are guaranteed to have a personalized experience with their equipment, no matter what you buy.
They’re also great with adding extra support for positions you know and love, as well as help you and your partner discover new positions. Liberator takes pride in crafting their furniture to make sure every angle, curve, and elevation will heighten the sexual experience for each and every person involved.
“Ok,” you say, nodding and possibly getting a little turned on at the idea of having furniture and accessories specifically designed for awesome, mind-blowing sex. “But – how can Liberator and their furniture help me with sex when I have an injury?”
That, my dear, is where the Esse Chaise II comes in.
Esse Chaise II
So, what even is an Esse Chaise, and why is there two of them? The Esse Chaise started as a chaise lounge specifically designed for sex; it has the right curves and humps to make sure any position you use on it is as comfortable and sensual as possible. Esse Chaise II takes it up a notch by having a longer and narrower body, making it easier to straddle and get creative. Every position will provide you proper comfort and cradling because of how accurate the changes are to the curves and angles. It even comes with a headrest, offering 5-inches of height for straddling or kneeling.
How is it good for injuries? Imagine if you have a back or neck injury, and you’re lying on a flat bed trying to have sex and also be comfortable. Lying in bed without the sex aspect is already so uncomfortable with those injuries, right? So how could you be comfortable with sex thrown into the equation!? Esse Chaise II is designed to offer support for the back, neck, and hips. The curves align perfectly with the natural contour of the body, meaning you will have the perfect amount of support for your lower back. Using the removable headrest can ensure neck stability, giving you comfort while giving you pleasure. Stand behind it and place your hands on the higher hump for added standing support. Be able to straddle the longue easier due to its decrease in width from the first iteration.
“…the Esse Chaise II reinterprets the unique interplay between the Kama Sutra and Tantric Sex – enabling couples to enjoy lovemaking without compromises.” – Description
This means, whether you’re physically having sex, enjoying a mind-body connection, or delving into any kink you may be into, the Esse Chaise II can support you in all your and your lover’s needs.
While having sex or intimate relationships with an injury may seem impossible at first, it definitely doesn’t have to be. This is a great time to do research into sex props and products and think about they may help you outside of enhancing pleasure. If you’re suffering from an injury and are looking for hope, I highly recommend Liberator’s Esse Chaise II.
I had personally been using the Esse Chaise, and now, Esse Chaise II at the Bunnyranch for over ten years. I had major success in creating super imaginative and new experiences as well as incorporating it’s use for overcoming physical limitations tpo.
If you’re someone who has had difficulty with exotic sex positions in the past, or you are experiencing difficulty in basic bedroom positions now, you could benefit greatly from using the Essse II. Due to the multitude of adjustable angles, it’s easy to find a position that’s comfortable on the hips, knees, and wrists. You can have the man on the bottom, or the woman on the bottom depending on which one of the hundreds of positions you indulge in. Even traditional positions take on a unique, erotic edge! There are countless possible ways to use the Esse II.
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