The great news is that there is hope!! You can start by doing what I call “Kegel exercises for your cock”. You can search that same phrase on Youtube and find the exercises you need.
Here are a couple that I like.
I don’t think you need to buy the program, you can use common things around your home to add weight.
Kegel Exercises For Men – How To Last Longer in Bed With Kegel Exercise | Male Kegeling
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