More Than Half Of Men In Relationships Hire Sex Workers

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More Than Half Of Men In Relationships Hire Sex Workers

Nov 14, 2016 By Christine Rivas

When you think of a man hiring a hooker, you might find yourself thinking that they’re being perverts or misogynists, especially if you find out that they’re family men. You might even find yourself judging them when you find out that about half of the men who hire sex workers are men who are in relationships. However, studies have shown that that’s very far from the truth: the men who hire sex workers while in relationships are men that are craving an emotional bond beyond what their relationships are currently giving them. No matter what you think of this morally, the fact remains that this is happening, and there are a lot of reasons why. Here are just a few reasons why men hire sex workers while in relationships.

A new study shows that men aren’t hiring sex workers for the reasons we think. Men are actually hiring sex workers because they’re seeking intimacy. Many of these men are in relationships, and some even have families.

If you’re wondering how many men, that number might surprise you. 48% of the 446 people who answered the survey claimed to be in relationships. 61% of them were between the ages of 31 and 50, and 3% of them weren’t actually men at all. “Among the respondents were farmers, doctors, civil servants, care workers, bank clerks, accountants, electricians and company directors,” according to the study.

Susann Huschke and Dirk Schubotz put a survey out on different escort sites. They also sent emails to escort site users. They found that 85% of the men they asked paid to have sex with women. Many of them made it a point to only see one or two on a regular basis, because it “allows friendship and trust to develop.”

That goes to show that our assumptions about men who pay for sex might be wrong. While yes, there might be some men who go out of their way to pay for as much sex as they can with as many women as they can, there are a lot of men who are doing it for some underlying reason, and their reasons aren’t invalid.

One man talked about how hiring sex workers is rarely about sex. Nick is one of the men who was interviewed by the researchers, and he had a lot to say about his interactions with sex workers. “Part of me will enjoy that almost more than the sex itself, that human contact,” Nick said.

Here’s a bit of a statistics breakdown. Many men stated that their favorite thing about hiring sex workers was the ability to explore their sexuality and having more than one sexual partner. Interestingly, 41% of these men were upset that they had to hide the fact that they hired sex workers.

Single men also had a lot to say. 35% of single men said that they’d be willing to stop paying for sex if they were in a relationship. Then again, we have no idea how truthful these guys are being, because 48% of these men are already in relationships and that isn’t stopping them.

Paying a sex worker means a lot of different things. Of course, there’s paying for sex outright, but there’s also going to happy ending massage parlors and hiring sex workers for the companionship. A lot of these men see monogamy as a fine line and don’t see what the big deal is.

While some of this does come down to companionship, a lot of this does come down to sex. A lot of men hire sex workers when their sex life in their relationships is lacking. “If I had a good, active sex life at home, I definitely wouldn’t be going to any escorts,” Roger said. He’s another one of the respondents. He also said that “half the time I want to be cuddled, and hugged, intimately

You might be wondering why a person would stay in a relationship like this. There are several reasons. Some of them might have children, and they don’t want to break up their families. Others have financial obligations that would be too expensive to break with a breakup. Still others find that they’re satisfied with their spouses in every other way, so there’s really no reason to leave.

You might also wonder why some of these people just don’t have regular affairs. According to experts, it’s just simpler that way. Even a one night stand can carry baggage that hiring a sex worker simply doesn’t have. Men also hire sex workers to manage boredom, or more serious things like depression or anxiety. Lots of men have the mentality that the sex doesn’t count as sex if it was paid for.

Some men see sex workers to hide a part of their sexual identity. A lot of men find that they can’t be honest about some aspect of their sexuality, so they use sex workers to have that outlet and compartmentalize it out of their lives. They don’t necessarily want their sexual kinks or their sexuality in general to mess up a relationship.

Some of these men have full permission, while others do not. Some women actually let their significant others see sex workers or get sexually gratified in some way outside of their relationship, but very rarely does that include actually having sex with a sex worker. Others have no idea at all, and the fallout when they find out can be catastrophic for a relationship.

You may have opinions about all of this. However, that doesn’t change the fact that this is a thing that happens. If you’re concerned that your significant other is seeing a sex worker without your knowledge (and chances are you’ll know what that feeling feels like without me having to tell you), ask them about it. Perhaps there’s a reason they’re doing it that has a lot to do with your relationship, or nothing to do with it at all. You’ll never know unless you don’t ask.

By Christine Rivas

Myth Buster: Older Men Only Want to Sleep with Young Women.

It is a common misconception that older men only prefer younger women to hookup with. It may be true in some cases but we can’t say that is true for the majority of men. In fact, this article explains why this common phenomenon may not be entirely true at all.

 So, read on to find it out.

1.    Young Girls (Gold Diggers) Prey on Older Men

We generally think that it is the older men who normally fall for younger women but you will be amused to know that it is rather the other way around.

Studies show that younger girls look for men who are more mature, intellectual and rich. And they easily find these qualities in an older man. Hence, they prefer an older guy over a young lad still feeling his oats and finding his way.  Yes, they will prefer the young man for their inherent youthful qualities in the bedroom, but they mistakenly believe they can do without a fulfilling sex life for the sake of what the older man’s money can buy.

Furthermore, Professor Madeleine, the author of “The Social Psychology of Attraction and Romantic Relationship” says that most of the women fall for older men and that too mainly for financial security. So, it proves that young girls are far more into older men than vice versa.

2.    Mature and Older Men Prefer Mature Women

Older men who are mature look for women who are also mature, and they normally find this quality in women their age.

According to researcher, Jan Antfolk of Abo Akademi University in Turku, although there may be men who are attracted to young girls, there are majority of men who are attracted to women belonging to their age group.
The researcher stressed the point that men never base their romantic choices solely on the age factor. In fact, older men prefer women who are more sober, sophisticated and wise. And they normally find these traits in older women.

3.     Older Men Mostly Prefer Older Women

Older women are independent, sensible and mature. These are the qualities that not only older men find attractive but young men find them hard to resist too.

Science says that young women constantly crave for attention and this can easily turn off both young and old men. Since older women are more secured and sorted, more men tend to fall for them.

S0, these are the three main reasons that prove that older men can be (and are) interested in women that are closer or belong to their age group.

So why the huge misconception? What gives?

Well, alll men, regardless of their own age,  prefer the  visual of a 20 yr old gal.  That’s it, across the board.

You are being sold products by getting your attention with something that is appealing to you, pretty girls that look like oversexed nymphomaniacs.  And implanting the idea that you will attract those kinds of women by using whatever product they are selling.

So, what’s my point? Am I just a jaded old woman trying to scare you into seeing me?

The answer is no, I am not just a jaded old woman.  I truly want to save you the aggravation and embarrassment of falling for a young little gold digger that will ultimately break your heart, your ego and your wallet.  I know because many years ago, I used to be that shallow little gold digger.

I want you to know that you are not unusual for secretly preferring an older woman despite what the marketing and advertising machines tell you.

And, yes, I do want you to come see me because I am secure, established, genuine and truly oversexed.

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