Here is where I answer my most frequently asked love, sex and relationship questions. Enjoy!
1. Amy, does size matter?
Well, you know over the course of twenty years as the leading and most successful working girl the in the Nevada Legal Brothels, I’d have to say I am very qualified to answer that question.
I’ve seen just about every shape and size you can imagine and just when I think I’ve seen it all, I see some more.
The answer is “No”. Period. Hands down. “No”. It’s all in how you use it honey.
Always communicate with your partner. You can talk, you can stop, you can start all over again. You have time, trust me. Chances are you will see her again if it isn’t a one night stand (and no one should be taking chances with their lives on one those any longer).
Let the lady know you are open to instruction and that you won’t take her suggestions and preferences as criticism.
Try different positions and speeds and techniques and ask her how she likes a particular technique compared to another. You see, too many women are afraid to hurt your feelings and tell you their likes and dislikes for fear you’ll think she is criticizing you, perhaps they don’t even know what they like.
My advice is to experiment and have a relationship that is open to new ideas and respectful of each other’s opinions, preferences and advice. Have fun with sex. Have fun in the bedroom. It isn’t all that serious guys and gals. Have fun. It’s all about feeling good, being happy and getting joy out of what mother nature gave us regardless our sizes and shapes. We are all truly unique and blessed in many different ways and we all need to celebrate that.
Until our paths may cross, bless you, have fun and email me your questions, comments and even appointment requests. at afa@airforceamy.com (I can turn any man into Peter North in a matter of minutes)
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2. Amy, I’m always afraid I will ejaculate too soon, what should I do?
Don’t worry honey, you’re definitely not alone there. I’m sure the majority of men have thought the very same thing. I’ve always heard the old adage “think about baseball” while in the act to prevent popping too soon. I just can’t believe a man could actually think about baseball while in the bed with me.
I’ve found that when man tries to prevent an inevitable ejaculation it spoils the mood, the performance and the enjoyment you were supposed to feel.
I say, “just do it”! get that first one out of the way, and your subsequent boners will last a lot longer. In the mean time show your lady your skills in pleasing her. Cunnilingus, a massage, bubble bath and even just pillow talk in between hard-ons is plenty to keep a lady interested until you rejuvenate. I know, you hate pillow talk, but women love it. That’s a good time to think about baseball while you listen to her babble.
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3. Dear Amy,
Thank you for the response. You seem very beautiful and nice on tv and I hope that you can help me with this problem. It’s kind of embarassing to talk about but here goes. I am in a bad spot right now. My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year now and the sex between us is amazing… When we actually have sex… We’re young, both 25 and 26 but we have sex four times a month at the most for the past few months. It wasn’t like that in the beginning but now it seems it’s getting worse. I’ve tried everything I know how to do. When we do have sex I make him scream. And he does that for me too. But it seems like he doesn’t think it’s a problem that we have sex once a week or less lately. I’m at the end of my rope. I’ve tried outfits, different positions, asking him what his fantasies are and trying to play them out. I’ve tried talking to him but it just seems to make things worse. Lately I’m starting to feel like it’s me. I’m a very sexual person but maybe I’m not attractive. I’ve been trying to work out to lose some weight and he tells me I’m beautiful all the time but it just doesn’t seem that he’s sexually attracted to me. I don’t know what to do and my friends are no help. So I figured I’d go to someone who could probably keep the same man interested for a hundred years. haha. There’s more to the story but we’ll talk about that more later. So if there’s anything you could do to help I would be eternally grateful. I don’t wanna lose him but I also don’t want to be unhappy myself. Please help if you can or if you can’t please point me in the right direction.
Thanks.
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If he won’t communicate with you, how the hell are you supposed to do anything for you or him? You’re supposed to read his fucking mind? If he won’t communicate there, he probably isn’t telling you everything about other areas of his life either. Dump him! You deserve better. He’s probably fucking around on you and doesn’t have the stamina to keep up with you because he’s fucking someone else too. Get out and get out fast. Life is too short to be taking up your time with some ass that won’t communicate with you and can’t satisfy you and makes you feel inadequate. Move on baby. There are bigger fish to fry and plenty of them!!!
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